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"We all know women just want to be homemakers." Cringe

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u/jacqui1986 10d ago

No booing? They were stunned to silence?

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u/adhesivepants 10d ago

That baby booed him.

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u/IamImposter 9d ago

These baby booers, I tell you

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u/marzipancowgirl 9d ago

They are out of control. There is an entire sub dedicated to dealing with them

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u/anonymoususer98545 10d ago

Best comment here, lol.

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u/adhdgurlie 10d ago

I grew up Mormon and even the cadence along with the content of his speech was very familiar to me. Didn’t realize how handmaid’s tale my upbringing was even after I realized it was a cult.

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u/adhdgurlie 10d ago edited 10d ago

I absolutely agree with the sentiment but here’s some insight from my own experiences: 1) i was born and raised in it, which is also the case for most other american mormons, so it makes up not only your religious beliefs but your ENTIRE WORLD VIEW and your purpose in life, I cannot stress that part enough 2) every woman in your family and family friends at church is also in it, so why would you ever question it? 3) this one is the most sinister/genius on the part of the patriarchy: in mormonism, men have the priesthood “the power of God” and women don’t. Don’t ask to get it or you’ll be excommunicated. Women are told nowadays that their version of the priesthood is the ability to bare children and raise them and that’s their power. So since they can’t have the priesthood, they might as well do that, and if they don’t then they’re wasting their version of magical power. ✨~brainwashhingggggg~✨

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u/0MrFreckles0 10d ago

It's honestly astounding how strong that brainwashing can be.

I remember our church had just gotten a new female pastor. And my mom along with other female church members actually tried to intervene and confronted her saying it wasn't a womens place to be in a position of leadership, and only men should be pastors.

I was in middle school and that was one of the first moments I started questioning my faith.

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u/GlumpsAlot 10d ago

Good! You're a better person than them.

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u/0MrFreckles0 10d ago

Aw to give them credit the new female pastor sat them down and convinced them to change their minds, and the church is better than most because I'm in a liberal state, they were telling folks not to vote for trump before his first election.

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u/GlumpsAlot 10d ago

I'm so glad you got out of that nightmare. Fuck mormonisn and fuck religion.

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u/disagreeablegray 9d ago

Woman who was raised in a fundie cult here. I didn’t wake up until I was 26 yrs old and married for 5 yrs. Now divorced. Brainwashing is a hell of a drug. Your whole support system props it up. Add in a little spice from being raised by narcissists that made you a people pleaser bc they couldn’t regulate their own emotions at their big age and you get powerful religious indoctrination and subservience. Looking back on it now, even I sometimes find it hard to understand how I could believe this horse shit so doggedly whilst being controlled and used by a patriarchal death cult. It’s crazy.

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u/stashc4t 10d ago

“Be fruitful and replenish the earth”

I’m pretty sure the earth has had enough.

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u/KeyofE 10d ago

We used to joke that the girls going to Christian schools were all going to get their MRS degree.

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u/Schwifftee 10d ago

I started typing this degree into the search engine, then saw it lowercase before it clicked.

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u/MyPasswordIsMyCat 10d ago

This is how the University of Utah makes fun of BYU: Ring by spring, or your money back!

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u/cosmosomsoc 10d ago

In the full video the crowd claps loudly after his homemaker line. Ugh.

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u/Ig_Met_Pet 10d ago

They also gave him a standing ovation at the end.

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u/Comment139 9d ago

Yeah, the clip was cut just before they started cheering.

https://youtu.be/-JS7RIKSaCc?t=779

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u/Heart_Throb_ 10d ago

This is my question. We don’t see the crowds reaction but I am sure (or hoping) there were at least some stink eyes.

What has been the school’s response to this?

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u/Blunderhorse 10d ago

Someone else commented that it was a Christian school, and since he made sure to point out that his wife converted to the faith, he’ll probably be invited back next year.

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u/8Hundred20 9d ago

He received a standing ovation for that line https://youtu.be/-JS7RIKSaCc?t=778

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u/alison_bee 10d ago

One of the most important titles of all: homemaker

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u/ashley-3792 10d ago

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u/clarkent123223 10d ago

Him getting emotional at the end about his wife being his homemaker is so damn funny.

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u/lobsterdance82 9d ago

🥺"I wouldn't be able to play ball wiff my fwiends if my wife didn't sacwifice her life to do everyting else for me"🥺

😒🙄

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u/Chilidogdingdong 9d ago

He doesn't even play ball, he's a kicker.

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u/TheRealValpal 9d ago

God Rose's face is so perfect for reactions like this, I hope she's still doing well

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u/hayley566 10d ago edited 10d ago

Imagine going up on stage in front of countless women that have just worked their asses off for years, had so many sleepless nights studying and are finally able to go out and make their own careers begin….just to tell them “yeah, that’s great and all but you should just stay in the kitchen”.

The lack of awareness.

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u/VirtualPlate8451 10d ago

Motherfucker plays a game as his job. I’m sure it’s extremely difficult and all but when we build the ark ship to leave earth behind and save humanity, how many spots you think get reserved for NFL kickers?

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u/Lemon_Cakes_JuJutsu 10d ago

he said a whole host of stupid crazy shit

KANSAS CITY, Mo. (AP) — Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker railed against Pride month, working women, President Biden’s leadership during the COVID-19 pandemic and abortion during a commencement address at Benedictine College last weekend.

The three-time Super Bowl champion delivered the roughly 20-minute address Saturday at the Catholic private liberal arts school in Atchison, Kansas, which is located about 60 miles north of Kansas City.

Butker, who has made his conservative Catholic beliefs well known, began his address by attacking what he called “dangerous gender ideologies” in an apparent reference to Pride month, which has been celebrated in June since the Stonewall riots in 1969. He also criticized an article by The Associated Press highlighting a shift toward conservativism in some parts of the Catholic Church.

The 28-year-old Butker then took aim at Biden’s policies, including his response to COVID-19, which has killed nearly 1.2 million people in the U.S., according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

“While COVID might have played a large role throughout your formative years, it is not unique,” he said. “The bad policies and poor leadership have negatively impacted major life issues. Things like abortion, IVF, surrogacy, euthanasia, as well as a growing support for the degenerate cultural values and media all stem from pervasiveness of disorder.”

Butker later addressed the women in the audience, arguing that their “most important title” should be that of “homemaker.”

“I think it is you, the women, who have had the most diabolic lies told to you,” Butker said. “Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world. I can tell you that my beautiful wife Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vocation as a wife and as a mother.”

The Chiefs declined to comment on Butker’s commencement address.

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u/Ok_Tomato7388 10d ago

Well this guy sounds like he would make a great commander for Gilead. He can fuck right off.

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u/VaughnRidge 10d ago

Who tf does he think was president during COVID?!? What an out of touch dweeb

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u/TheDillinger88 10d ago

But Trump suggested injecting bleach to prevent covid, a novel and brilliant solution, many deaths would have been avoided had we done that /s

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u/billsboy88 9d ago

I feel like I want to shout it from rooftops: “the President during any Covid related shut downs or mask mandates was Trump, not Joe Biden.”

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u/Key-Rest-1635 9d ago

mf probably had the heritage foundation write his speech

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u/TheyCallMePeggyHill 10d ago

'While COVID might have played a large role throughout your formative years, it is not unique,” he said. “The bad policies and poor leadership have negatively impacted major life issues. Things like abortion, IVF, surrogacy, euthanasia, as well as a growing support for the degenerate cultural values and media all stem from pervasiveness of disorder.”

What the fuck is this chud even talking about? This is some stormfrontian word salad nonsense.

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u/Confident-Radish4832 10d ago

How does this guy go to work the next day and pretend like everyone in that locker room is on his side.

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u/TT_NaRa0 10d ago

“Catholic Private Liberal Arts” college ….. something isn’t adding up here 🤔

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u/Shel_gold17 10d ago

I went to one, and he would NEVER have been tolerated as a commencement speaker. Of course, the students got to choose (with university approval, but still.)

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u/AmmaLittleOwl 9d ago

Took a peek at their info, and he, unfortunately, fits right in with that particular college's culture. On the surface, at least, it appears to be on the conservative end of the Catholic spectrum.

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u/pppossibilities 10d ago

So is he announcing a bid for a Republican Senate seat?

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u/blac_sheep90 10d ago

Euthanasia? So he's pro making the dying suffer longer because his religion said so.

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u/BeastThatShoutedLove 10d ago

It's really just the kind of people that start talking about how suffering is noble and part of God's plan when faced with situation of a stranger that suffers pain beyond human dignity.

Of course until it's their suffering, then they get the best doctors to give them best painkillers.

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u/davwad2 10d ago

Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vacation as a wife and as a mother.

For $500, Isabelle: does life start at conception, birth, marriage, or giving birth?

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u/ApprehensiveOCP 10d ago

Bruh "I'm essential"

Dude moves his leg, lol. For a living. Why anyone asks athletes to comment on society is beyond me. They deal in self delusion as a professional norm, that's why so many of them gamble.

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u/TT_NaRa0 10d ago

Honestly, would someone call Ja Rule?! I need to hear his thoughts on this!

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u/Reynolds_Live 10d ago

I always think of this joke when a celebrity gives their dumbass opinion on shit. 😂

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u/MyButtEatsHamCrayons 10d ago

He doesn’t even play a game. He plays a game within a game. It’s like playing professional Gwent in professional Witcher 3.

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u/Supadupasloth 10d ago

I mean if he has the money he will probably have a place.

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u/PerpWalkTrump 10d ago

Probably not, millionaire rich is not gonna cut it when you have billionaires all around the world.

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u/SpiderHamm5 10d ago

He started to cry and I'm like "..."

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u/supinoq 9d ago

"I am beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me, but it can not be overstated that all of my success is made possible because my talentless wife is barefoot and pregnant and does my chores for me, because she's a woman and that's her true vocation, she has no need for self-actualisation other than being a homemaker. If she were a man, she could also be given talents by God like me, but she's a mere woman, so her life should be limited to being my mommy bangmaid 😭"

What a heartfelt speech all about what his wife gives him and how other women should also just sacrifice and give their whole selves to men just because, love to see it

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u/Netflxnschill 10d ago

This sounds a lot like pretty much any talk at BYU by a man to a crowd of women.

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u/sixTeeneingneiss 10d ago

I just found out who this dude is today, and assumed he was a Mormon based on this bullshit

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u/Thercon_Jair 10d ago

Also, each child has a father. Yet, nobody ever says to boys "When are you planning to be a father?"

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u/JejuneBourgeois 10d ago

This is immediately after he said that Christianity was the counterculture and that their faith goes against the "tyranny of diversity, equity, and inclusion". He's an absolute idiot

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u/YouWereBrained 10d ago

Where did he give this speech?

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u/infinitelabyrinth 10d ago

Georgia Tech is his Alma Mater but he gave this at a private liberal arts college in Kansas, Benedictine College. I don’t think GT would let that fly.

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u/lollipop-guildmaster 10d ago

Some Catholic college.

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u/ARWren85 10d ago

Atchison Kansas Benedictine college

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u/Lnnam 10d ago

I don’t understand American Catholicism, it doesn’t look like the kind of Catholic faith we have in Europe. It is rich for a Catholic to publicly rail against equity and inclusion (I won’t delude myself acting like Catholics love diversity but we are supposed to believe in it).

They are just evangelical Protestants no matter what they pretend to be.

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u/showersrover8ed 10d ago

Make me a sandwich. Harrison butner to his wife before every game cause he's really working hard kicking some kick offs and a field goal or 2 a game

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u/ItsCowboyHeyHey 10d ago

How was he not booed off the fucking stage?

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u/therapist122 10d ago

It was at an extremely conserve catholic college, they probably expect this shit there. It’s just normal society that’s so surprised by this nonsense 

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u/CastInSteel 10d ago

How convenient for the college to take the tuition money off their female students only to condone a speaker telling them to stay in the kitchen.

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u/Serious_Session7574 10d ago

"Thanks for all the tuition money. Well done on all of your hard work and academic success. Now put an apron on and fuck off to the kitchen where you belong."

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u/sdrawkcabsihtetorW 10d ago

"See, now that you've seen how hard this is, wouldn't you be more comfortable in the nice warm kitchen where you belong with baby at your breast and a tasty sourdough loaf in the oven?"

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u/smcivor1982 10d ago

I was booing him from my house!!!

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u/Hole_in_one78 10d ago

I watched the entire speech. Not only did he not get booed off stage. He got an applause break about halfway through. I don’t remember what he said to get it. But he also got a standing ovation at the end. Completely nuts.

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u/ItsCowboyHeyHey 10d ago

Women cheering for their own subjugation. What a mindfuck.

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u/Serious_Session7574 10d ago

Under His eye.

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u/werthtrillions 10d ago

Umm did HIS life start when he became a husband? Like woman are just waiting around to get a husband so they have a purpose?? This guy is an idiot.

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u/Serious_Session7574 10d ago

Apparently men are too important to do shit like look after themselves. They've got balls to kick and stuff.

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u/redspade600rr 10d ago

I’m shocked there aren’t screams of boooooooo from all around the stage. F this guy

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u/alfooboboao 10d ago

oh man, just wait until you fall down the rabbit hole of super conservative American colleges and universities. I’d start with Bob Jones University, where they have segregated male/female sidewalks and they recently banned prolonged eye contact between couples bc it was too sexual

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u/GlumpsAlot 10d ago

Aye we got creeptastic Liberty University over here pulling in all the evangical nuts.

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u/Frondswithbenefits 10d ago

While their founder's son is having threesomes with the pool boy.

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u/curlyque31 10d ago

Graduating has been one of the highlights of my life and looking up into the stands to see my 5-year-old daughter watch me get my Master’s is truly one of the top. What a fuckin dweeb for diminishing that moment for so many women.

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u/BwyceHawpuh 10d ago

Dont worry, he also went on a rant about Joe Biden and COVID, then he emphasized that trans people were “dangerous” and that homosexuality is an unforgivable sin.

At a college graduation.

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u/ready-to-rumball 10d ago

Uhm, seriously? And no one booed?? 😭

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u/BwyceHawpuh 10d ago

It’s an extremely conservative Catholic school, if I were a woman in that crowd I would be scared to voice dissaproval.

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u/RubyMae4 10d ago

dear daughter, here is why I work

Someone shared this to me when I had my first child. It still makes me cry. Good for you 🥰

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u/Beat_Specialist 10d ago

Ty for sharing that. I know a few people who it might help.

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u/BeautifulIsland39 9d ago

“I work because -- despite my being the parent who's almost always the one walking through the door at 6 pm, the one who rarely travels for the work, the one who's keeping track of the fact that the permission slip for the field trip is due tomorrow -- you'd never ask your father why he works. His love is a given that long hours at work do nothing to diminish.”

Love this, thank you for that.

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u/LIMIT1_5639 10d ago

So this bearded dork doesn't think his wifeslave's contentment comes from being married to a rich football player?

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u/vadersdrycleaner 10d ago

Dude is a kicker. He isn’t even a real football player.

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u/CHEMO_ALIEN 10d ago

it's the best position to play, practically. the odds of injury are low, and all you gotta do is get on the field a couple times a game

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u/vadersdrycleaner 10d ago

Wholeheartedly agree, with the exception of backup QB (see Chase Daniel).

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u/Nice_Asstronaut_5_8_ 10d ago

Backup qbs have to do like 10x the work of a kicker tho

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u/Derbeck6 10d ago

Hell, third string QBs do more work than the kickers. Speaking as a former kicker.

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u/Petey_Wheatstraw_MD 10d ago

You’re both wrong. Kickers get hurt sometimes and have to get in tons of practice kicks. And backup qbs get tons of reps in practice. The most kush position by far is long snapper. They barely practice and you can’t even touch them on the line of scrimmage.

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u/Straight_Toe_1816 10d ago

As a college long snapper I can confirm this. Although you still have to run down to cover the kick, but yeah, it’s pretty chill.

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u/Full-Pack9330 10d ago

"Many skills" 😄😁😆😅🤣😂.... need more emojis

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u/MylastAccountBroke 10d ago

Honestly, I support women choosing the best path forward for themselves. That being said, this man clearly disagrees.

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u/Queef-Elizabeth 10d ago edited 10d ago

And in no time he's going to become a right wing grifter who whines about the woke after he gets told how stupid this speech was

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u/adhesivepants 10d ago

Can't wait for him to not get his contract renewed because he's a jackass and then get Elon to help him sue because he thinks he's entitled to a pro sports job.

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u/thelanai 10d ago

This is problematic for multiple reasons but it just flew over his head that he and his wife are very privileged. I don't know how much NFL kickers make, but I bet it's more than the average American. Some women work because they WANT to. Some women work because they HAVE to. Talk about not reading the room. Geesh

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u/selphiefairy 10d ago

Even if your husband makes enough money for the both of you, you still need to try and keep career prospects -- what if you divorce or god forbid, your husband dies? Good fucking luck

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u/thelanai 10d ago

I agree. Should always have a back up plan!

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u/Parallax1984 9d ago

I work in family law and my number one advice to women - never take yourself out of the workforce because it’s almost impossible to get back into it once you’ve left for several years

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u/Dew_Chop 9d ago

Well, in that case, "the Lord works in mysterious ways" aka "I don't want to admit we are wrong/don't know

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u/davwad2 10d ago

He's earned just over $18M, so far.

Source: SportsTrac: Harrison Butker

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u/andsendunits 9d ago

Are you saying that an privileged conservative male is out of touch with reality?

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u/redfive5tandingby 10d ago

1) boo this man 2) why are we still doing the TikTok thing of making faces on top of a video, no commentary?

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u/Artemis_fs 10d ago

I call them green screen gremlins

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u/Excuse_Unfair 10d ago

Lazy way to "make" content

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u/PerpWalkTrump 10d ago

To be fair, I'd hate giving this dude a view/interaction so the green screen goblin is useful in a way.

Also, bro, I'm happy for you but holy fuck, you're just the kicker 🥴

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u/smooth-brain_Sunday 10d ago

Yeah, but he'd be NOTHING without his wife who he met in 6th grade.

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u/AniYellowAjah 10d ago

Having a BS degree to get out of my poor country to come and work in New York is one of the biggest achievements in my generation and in my life. While in New York, I earned a doctorate degree while working three jobs to pay them off without any student loans. Now I’m at a directorial level job. Heck no, I’m not going back to the kitchens!

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u/adhesivepants 10d ago

Heckin proud of you stranger.

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u/SurvingTheSHIfT3095 10d ago

BOOOOOOOOO... 🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅

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u/rivermonster669 10d ago

Tomatoes aren’t hard enough

Boooooo 🥥🥥🥥🥥🥥🥥🥥

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u/overtly-Grrl SHEEEEEESH 10d ago

He really had the audacity to say that to a bunch of women when all he does is kick balls around????

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u/functionalfixedness 10d ago

Not only to the women graduates, but I’m sure some of those students had moms who work in attendance, not to mention any female faculty and staff present. Eww.

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u/nwh527 9d ago

His own mother is a physicist at Emory University, the hypocrisy is real.

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u/functionalfixedness 9d ago

Oh my. What an asshole.

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u/ncvbn 9d ago

Why suppose that he's a hypocrite? Isn't it just as likely that he sincerely thinks his mom made an immoral choice because he's a misogynist?

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u/MrAppleSpiceMan 9d ago

not only that, he's the kicker in a game where the amount of actual kicking is incredibly scarce. the bulk of the game is spent carrying and throwing/catching the ball. they only set up to kick the thing every once in a while, and it's not even worth that many points. dude is a bowie knife in a shootout

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u/Galvanisare 10d ago

Well looks like Harrison Butker is an absolute POS.

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u/Sk8rToon 10d ago

I went to a Christian college. A lot of girls were there solely to get their MRS degree & Ring by Spring. But I was there to get my degrees. Sure I would have been happy had it happened but no one was interested. And the guy I was interested in had no interest when I asked. Same in high school. And it continues to this day. I'm 41, childless & single.

Do you know how utterly screwed I would be without a degree right now? You know how many jobs require a bachelors? Do you know how broke & depressed I'd be if I had decided my sole purpose in life was to be a wife & mother… and then it didn't happen?!?!

There are more women on this planet than men. Even if magically every single man had a monogamous wife (& their ages matched & no one was gay) there would STILL be women without spouses. What the hell are they supposed to do in this theoretical world where wife & motherhood is their sole purpose in life?

Sometimes I wonder if we're reading the same Bible. Because Paul says in 1st Corinthians that it’s better to be single. If you have a spouse & family you’re worried about your family & how you’ll take care of them, but single people can focus more on God & be flexible in their time to help others. Which is the exact opposite of what this speaker is suggesting.

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u/adhesivepants 10d ago

Clearly those women should just become nuns.

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u/DedicatedSnail 10d ago

My plan was always to be a homemaker. That said, I got 2 legal degrees on a full ride and graduated top of my class both times. There was no promise that I'd meet the right man that wants the same things and even if I did (I did btw a couple months before finishing college), what would I do if something were to happen to him and I needed to take over the financial provisions for my family? A woman getting a degree is not a bad thing, it's prudent and responsible to be able to take over if needed. I've been a homemaker for 2 years now and I'm so happy with it, but I still freelance from home time to time so I don't have huge gaps in employment if something were to happen to my husband.

At the time I met my husband, I'd been single for 7 years. The future looked like I'd never meet my husband and live that life I wanted. I'd have been so beyond pissed off if I had that speech at my graduation undermining my years of commitment and hard work on top of rubbing my nose in not being able to do that in the first place.

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u/Kattheshrink 10d ago

Sure, forget my 2 bachelors, my 2 masters, and my doctorate…my true achievement is marrying my husband, popping out a human, raising a second second human from the age of 3, and making some mean yeast rolls.

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u/Cancerisbetterthanu 10d ago

Harrison isn't impressed. Sit down and listen to the ball man tell your silly, deluded female brain what actually matters

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u/Kattheshrink 10d ago

I now see clearly thanks to the patriarchal teachings of a sports-ball dude who calls himself “buttkicker” on instagram and wears a cup to protect his other ball. I mean, don’t we all marry pro-athletes so we can afford to be homemakers?

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u/Leckloast 10d ago

What a delusional tool

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u/PrettyClient9073 10d ago

Free labor much. What an epic piece of shit.

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u/Cancerisbetterthanu 10d ago

He's crying thinking about how hard it is washing all those dishes and cleaning up his shit

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u/tryingtobecheeky 10d ago

Look into Project 2025. If you vote conservative, you will lose democracy as you know it. I mean unless you enjoy living in a christian theocracy with some voting.

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u/stashc4t 10d ago

Future elections in that scenario will all look like

[insert first name] Trump

Defenestrated candidate 1

Novichok’d candidate 2

Wood chipper accident candidate 3

“Accidental” rapid cranium disassembly candidate 4

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u/procrastin-eh-ting 10d ago

men like him are the reason we need to fight for feminism every fucking day

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u/davis_je 10d ago

My first thought is that maybe men aren’t making enough money. Has he ever considered that the cost to run a household has increased dramatically? One income households just don’t cut it anymore. Men aren’t bringing home the bacon, as it were. These women want to be able to support their families.

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u/timeforachange2day 10d ago

What in the actual fuck!? Was this at BYU? 🤮

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u/ms_jacqueline_louise 10d ago

Benedictine. It’s a catholic liberal arts school I’d never heard of until now

I feel like whoever booked him knew what they were doing based on the fact that the WHOLE speech is like this (other themes include: men need to be manly, diversity equity and inclusion is bad, IVF and abortion are bad, being gay is dangerous, gay pride is a sin, etc.)

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u/Inevitable_Professor 10d ago

No. BYU graduation speakers prefer to focus on diminishing the gay students.

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u/adhesivepants 10d ago

Don't worry he did that too.

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u/hungrygorilla69 10d ago

Benedictine College - a catholic school, so you’re guess isn’t far off

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u/I_Like_Turtle101 10d ago

Why is no one booing ?

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u/Capones_Vault 10d ago

Seriously. I went to a small, Catholic, liberal arts college and I would have gone ape shit if this was my commencement. They wouldn't even think to bring a choad like this to speak.

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u/8Splendiferous8 10d ago

Christian school.

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u/NoLand4936 10d ago

I’ve finally found a player I hate more than Brady.

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u/Capones_Vault 10d ago

Is that possible? Just kidding - I have a list of players I hate that rotates, but Brady is always near the top, if not #1

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u/Fuzzy-Honey-4966 Doug Dimmadome 10d ago

i would be pissed if i spent my time and money and hard work to graduate just for them to hire a man that says i should become a baby making machine

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u/rabbitammo 10d ago

Oh good god eew! Just no. Why is there not audible booing happening from the women in the crowd? Ick!!

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u/stoner_lilith 10d ago

It’s at a Catholic college- one I went to, incidentally. If the women there are similar to how they were a few years back, most likely agreed with him. I met several women there who were just there for their “MRS” degree.

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u/shwooper 9d ago

What does that mean? Just to find a husband?

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u/stoner_lilith 9d ago

Yes that’s exactly what it means.

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u/nerdybynature 10d ago

Grooooosssssss

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u/kadargo 10d ago

What school was this? Liberty? Bob Jones?

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u/FriendOfTheDevil2980 10d ago

Don't forget Pensacola

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u/AWL_cow 10d ago

Or "I want to have power over you. I want you to be submissive to me, a man, and give up your financial stability and lose decades of income to be my maid. I want to have children but I want you to parent them and do the majority of the labor. If I decide I don't want you anymore, I will throw you out of my house. I want to control you."

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u/hourknotty 10d ago

Uh, so does the school condone this? Do they not vet a draft of the speech or at least the talking points? Has he just gone way off script? A truly bizarre thing to say at an educational institution. And him tearing up at his own words is just the cherry on top. What an absolute flog.

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u/adhesivepants 10d ago

Evidently this is a Catholic school that apparently resents having any female students.

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u/Night_Owl206 10d ago

"Congratulations on your amazing accomplishment" my ass. He totally took the opportunity to spread his opinions instead of being uplifting and inspiring

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u/Exact-Recognition973 10d ago

Look, if I want to go back to college and earn a degree after staying at home with my kids until they went to school, which I did, then that’s what I’m going to do. If I want to stay home and raise them while my spouse works, then that’s what I’m going to do. But I’ll be damned if someone or some set of beliefs is going to tell me I HAVE to do something just because I’m a women. That shit makes my blood boil.

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u/fusillade762 10d ago

Her vocation as maid, baby machine and sandwich maker. He couldn't have aspired to kick that little ball a couple times a game without her. Dude acts like he's out there curing cancer....you play a game for a living.

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u/mojofrog 10d ago

Homemaker = Houseslave

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u/pt_barnumsonson 10d ago

This bruh is choked up about it too, better get into that kitchen since it clearly is making him upset that y'all want jobs and shit

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u/saigespice 10d ago

Handmaids tale scary shit

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u/Mamasan- 10d ago

Why the fuck is he speaking at anything

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u/jellyfishordie420 10d ago

Damn it’s like read the room dude 😅

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u/Jordy_neutron 10d ago

What a waste of space

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u/camelia_la_tejana 10d ago

What a douche 😂

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u/XanaxWarriorPrincess 10d ago

Every woman should have thrown a shoe at him.

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u/___buttrdish 10d ago

His teeth are so distracting it’s adding an element of hilarity to his bullshit word salad.

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u/Unlucky_Cicada_355 10d ago

How is he qualified to tell any woman what to do? Let’s see…looks at list…he’s a kicker in the NFL.

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u/snowfuckerforreal 10d ago

He says women have been lied to… but I think the only lie is that beard. Let’s see what his face looks like without it. He’s lying to us!

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u/[deleted] 10d ago

Holy shit what a douchebag.

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u/wiremupi 10d ago

An obvious example of the brain damage suffered by those in high impact sports.

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u/adhesivepants 10d ago

Nah dudes a kicker. He was born with this.

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u/PokerBear28 10d ago

This is why freedom of speech is so important. If he didn’t have the constitutional right to get up and stage and say that, we never would’ve know what a fucking lunatic he is.

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u/Loveonethe-brain 10d ago

If he were my man the only thing he would be able to kick after that is a bucket.

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u/No_Albatross4710 10d ago

THE bucket. 💀

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u/senteryourself 10d ago

What a douchebag

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u/SnooMarzipans8231 10d ago

Under His Eye.

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u/TomaCzar 10d ago

Prager University graduations be like ...

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u/rykh7 10d ago

Cool, my wife did all that too. Oh ya, and is also a kick as surgeon.

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u/djackson404 10d ago

LOL this guy can go fuck himself.

Women, be who you want to be in life and don't let anyone, especially any MAN, tell you what to do.